Behold the modern "SEXPEST"
Time's up. Sexpests should be terrified.
Sexpests Galore
From what you may already know or have experienced, a sexpest is a made-up “slang” word that has been used in modernity to describe a person -mostly men- who sexually harasses others.
Just to be clear about what sexual harassment is, it is -mostly men- who focus their time and energy on being intimidating, hostile, degrading, humiliating, or being otherwise sexually offensive to their target.
As for how sexpests “operate”, they are PERSISTENTLY inappropriate. They are most often acting in intrusive ways; they “make” others uncomfortable with their unwanted sexual advances, comments, and physical contact. Sexpests generally behave in socially “unsettling” and downright annoying and predatory ways.
“I’m just joking around babe, calm down.”
When stopped or confronted, sexpests tend to either refuse to acknowledge their actions, or they become angry or hostile towards their targets. They constantly repeat sexual comments, jokes, and “innuendos”. They will “be flirty” and wink at you; they will attempt to pass off their behavior as “humor”.
Very often, sexpests are in positions of power or leverage “over” their targets, and they assume the target cannot cause them any issues. But sometimes, they do not know their targets at all, or have only just been “introduced” to their targets.
Sexpests will touch your arm over and over, or try and touch your face. They will try and hold your hand, or they will try and “turn you around” to look at your body. They do all of this under the pretense of “being friendly” or “playful”.
These types of people are TERRIBLE at noticing social cues. They are known to their friends and colleagues to never recognize or respect boundaries. They are not willing to stop their behavior, even after being told to stop or after clear signs of discomfort from their target.
Sometimes, sexpests are complex enough to use tools like flattery, gifts, or emotional manipulation to lower a person’s defenses. They think that if you accept these things from them, that it will give them permission to continue targeting you. But make no mistake, sexpests are only being “nice” in this way to lower their target’s “defenses”. And for sure, sexpests are known to escalate their behavior, before immediately pivoting to “gaslighting” behaviors that mentally twist their target’s perceptions. (Gaslighting is like making their target question their own perceptions, as if the target is “crazy” or “making up” their story.)
Over time, if they are not stopped, sexpests will concrete their own worst behaviors like stalking and monitoring their target’s daily activities. And often, this leads to their displaying possessiveness over their targets. It is EASY to feel total discomfort around the presence of a sexpest, because they are a constant source of annoyance or tension because of their psychotic sexualized behaviors. Sexpests are definitely predators of the most severe form, because they will not stop until forced to stop.
The Types of -Mostly Men- Most Likely to Be Sexpests
Researchers and experts say that people with certain personality traits and social “stances” are MUCH more likely to be sexpests. Again, men are most commonly the ones engaging in sexpest behaviors.
The easiest way to avoid a sexpest, is to see the early signs, and to GET THE HELL OUT OF THERE. There is not any real way to “talk your way out of” being targeted by a sexpest, so don’t bother. And so without reservation, I want to unload all the types personality traits that sexpests have, so that you can see them and avoid them BEFORE being targeted. Here they are:
—> Sexpests LOVE being rigid with adherence to traditional gender roles which cuck women. Most often these sorts of men “strongly believe” in traditional and often hypermasculine gender norms. I think a common example of this is that a many will insist that “the man” should be the “dominant” and sexually assertive one in the relationship. This man code for saying: “I want to be allowed to commit sexual harassment or assault against you, woman!”
—> Sexpests LOVE to be impulsive and aggressive.
—> Sexpests are rarely empathetic towards others, but they are often showing narcissistic behaviors. A lack of empathy, while being manipulative, is often a precursor to their regular displays of having a sense of entitlement.
—> Sexpests LOVE to accumulate “social status” and they think they are charismatic. Sometimes they are charismasic. You may have already noticed that sexpests like to “get along” with everyone. They attempt to build-up a certain amount of social “clout” and popularity to influence others; especially, because they want to simultaneously gain greater access to their targets AND mask their behaviors. But sometimes, they act socially-awkward to give themselves an “out” from any possible accusations that their target might make back toward them.
—> Sexpests have a LOVE AFFAIR with alcohol or substance abuse or BOTH. And, they often have not had any healthy relationships. Many of the sexpests offenders were raised by assholes.
To be fair and real, not all -mostly men- with these types of “personality traits” engage in such behavior. Definitely, sexpests can come from any background. Sexpests can definitely be women. But, women sexpests are much more rare.
My sexpests:
Now for the best part IMO: naming my sexpests. Someday, I will write a book, and provide proofs, context and details. But for now, I want this marked online for posterity. The truth sets me free. My sexpests have worked at these companies:
One worked at Farbeyondchiropractic.com in Phoenix AZ - was a medical personnel. Is married. I met his wife.
One worked at Carbonpura.com / Biocrestmed.com in San Diego CA - is a business person. Lives with his parents.
One worked at Naturalmedicinedetox.com in Phoenix AZ - was an NLP therapist.
One worked at AZsportsent.com in Phoenix AZ - was my client. Had a girlfriend.
One worked at Canadian Industrial Hemp Corporation and the incident happened in Nashville TN - was my mentor. Is married. I had talked to his wife.
One worked at Oceanintegrity.org and the incident happened in Phoenix AZ - was a new colleague to me. Is married.
I found out too late, but Humphrey Angeles is a known scammer and sexual predator. He assaulted me while we were “dating” and tried to harm my body in a very unusual and indecent way.
And the worst of all of them, Roland Small was an employee of my client, Spladyartstudios.com - is a known sexpest and woman abuser. Roland attacked me in my own bed while I was asleep. My client did not believe me.